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People You Surround Yourself With

by Bert Oliva

Have you ever sat down to think about the people you surround yourself with? Your friends, associates, partners, or acquaintances? Just stop and think. In what ways do they influence your life? If society can shape your beliefs, decisions and actions, what about those people that are closest to you. People in general feel uncomfortable with change and this is especially true with social groups so it is important to have positive influences from those people around you.

I believe that life is always about learning. One of my favorite sources of information is people, so I am always looking for those that have something to teach. Remember, change is good, go out and find new friends, associates, acquaintances, and partners, and ask yourself what can this newfound friend or associate teach me on my journey through life. This doesn’t mean to drop existing relationships to make room, but if you have a relationship that is less than positive it may be worth considering. Remember any relationship, whether it is a significant other or just a new person you have befriended, is bound by mutual trust, respect, and encouragement so make sure it goes both ways.

For a constructive relationships, surround yourself with the type of person that will always point out your best qualities and congratulate you on your accomplishments. Not those that spend your time questioning your successes.

So here is your assignment for the week. Take a couple of minutes to find who your true friends are, then give them a call and let them know how much you really appreciate their friendship.

Until next time.