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A Motivational Moment from Bert Oliva.
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A Motivational Moment from Bert Oliva.
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DON’T WORRY BE HAPPY
by Bert Oliva
Why do you worry so much? Why do we worry so much?
What happens when you get worried? Well let’s see…When we worry we get stressed and in return we get sick.
Most of the time, we stress over small things. Things that really truly don’t make a difference in our lives.
So why so we do it? There are several reasons why. However, two big ones come to mind for me. Sometimes we fight for things to go a certain way and when they don’t we flip out. Others times people do things the way we don’t like or it bothers us.
Here are some tools that have worked for me.
PowerTools™
1) Avoid setting yourself up with F.E.A.R., which Les Brown says is “False. Expectation. Appearing. Real.” Try to not have expectations so you don’t take too many things to heart.
2) Don’t allow others to disappoint you. Not everyone is going to make you happy.
3) Focus on what you need to be focusing on, which is you and your life. Because once you take care of you and what’s in your life, everything else falls into place and happens as it should.
So just stop worrying so much and be happy.
Live Life,
Bert Oliva
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ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER
by Bert Oliva
Do you know someone who tells you “I love you” all the time? Someone that says “You’re my everything. You mean the world to me…”?
However this same person says one thing and does another. They seem to never be there when you need them. They are always too busy to deal with your needs at the moment.
Why is that?
In my years of studying human potential I have realized that words are easy to say. Now when it comes to action, that is another story. Actions speak louder than words.
Make the effort of doing, not saying so much. Go out and show your love. Show people you really do care by your actions not just your words.
Believe you me, it easier said than done. But you will see the results and your life will change dramatically.
PowerTools:
1) Go out of your way and get a gift for that person. A special gift. (You don’t need money. Sometimes a single flower will show more than words.)
2) Write a letter or a special note. And read it to them before you give it to them.
3) Hug them for 30 second for an entire week. (Thirty seconds in a hug seems like a lifetime.)
NOTE: Most people will think you’ve lost your mind… As you know “crazy people succeed!”
Live Life,
Bert Oliva
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BEING HONEST WITH YOURSELF
by Bert Oliva
What does it takes to be truly honest with ourselves? Now this is an interesting topic…
Some people lie to themselves to the point that they start believing their own lies. And for some, their lies even become reality.
Why do people lie to themselves? One of the main reasons people do this is because they don’t want to hurt those that they love. However, by the time they realize it, not only did they hurt the people they love but they themselves are also hurt. Another main reason is trying to please the world. No matter what, in the end, the world will never be pleased and the people who try to please it will not be happy.
To be honest with oneself is not an easy thing to do. Most people don’t know what they want or let alone who they are. If you are one of these people, it’s not too late. Today you can start to live your life being honest.
Tools:
Stop: lying to yourself and others
Look: at your life right now and choose to change
Listen: to your heart and you will succeed!
Live Life,
Bert Oliva
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